“Ask yourself: 'Am I drowning?’ Someone always is. If right now, it isn't you, then you're most probably the lifeguard. So go. Save a life.” – p. 289, Cauliflower Ears

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Sometimes, you meet someone at just the right time, and that's how I feel about Lanzi. He's full of wisdom, and receiving this book from him has been one of the best gifts. I still remember Dreams by E. Kroiz, which helped me understand my dreams during my turbulent teenage years. Now, as an adult, books like “Cauliflower Ears: Ancient Wisdom for Everyday Life" are like Kroiz’s, a treasure. The title itself is a powerful metaphor, just as wrestlers earn cauliflower ears through battle, life’s struggles mark us but also show our growth and resilience. Think of this book as your headgear, helping you face challenges with strength and perseverance.

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“Cauliflower Ears: Ancient Wisdom for Everyday Life" by Lanzi Borromeo is a warm, practical guide that mixes ancient Stoic philosophy paired with timeless quotes from thinkers like Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, and Epictetus, and down to earth lessons about resilience and living a meaningful life. The book includes 366 short reflections that is inspired by the wisdom Lanzi gained from his grandfathers, who lived by Stoic principles, and Lanzi shows us that it isn’t about shutting down emotions or being indifferent to life, but rather about embracing each day with a sense of purpose; that while we can’t control what happens around us, we have full control over how we respond to it. Remember… 1. slow down 2. really think about how you approach life 3. taking ownership of your actions 4. finding meaning in every moment, and 5. practicing gratitude even when things get tough. 

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"Cauliflower Ears: Ancient Wisdom for Everyday Life" is the type of book I want by my side whenever I need clarity or guidance on how to respond to things. It’s like having a Magic 8 Ball for advice during uncertain times. If you're looking for the perfect read, especially moving into 2025 and beyond, this is it. Happy New Year!